Anonymous asked: Hi Seiko, I kind of want to change it up a little.. actually a lot. I feel like I'm kind of afraid to live.. What should I do first?
tashamacdaddy replied:


Start by saying yes to things you’d usually say no to & no to the things you’d usually say yes to. Get a new hairstyle. Switch up your look. Try foods you were too afraid to try before (maybe) because you were too afraid you wouldn’t like it. Save up & travel somewhere you’ve never been before. Do some volunteer work. Tell someone you’ve always found attractive that you think they’re fucking attractive. I’m not saying to completely lose your voice of reason, but fucking live a little. You’re never gonna get back lost time, so you might as well make the best of it good or bad & just do what makes you happy. Don’t be afraid to take chances. Life is naturally full of trial & error.


it’s hard to believe that I was so stuck on my hair when I had it. being low cut is amazing. I feel sexy, new and royal after every cut and line up. Never in a million years did I think that after every visit to the barber I would feel 10x more beautiful. what’s so awesome about us (women) is that we are literally EVERYTHING and more. we can rock our hair long or short, we grow people if we choose, we can wear the pants in our relationships, should we get tired of our skirts; or dresses…we can stay at home and take care of the house, go out into the world and build an empire or BOTH. we are just the sh*t and I love us.


Does anyone else feel really guilty when they start talking about their own feelings and then immediately regret saying anything because you just feel so annoying and pathetic and ugh


-@thesoulasylum: Black women are not a gay mans accessory to wear.

Oh shucks! Is it inconvenient to love black culture right now? Where did all y’all go? I swore all of you said you believe we are all equal and gotta stop seeing race cause we all bleed red. Please! Come on and join us! Standing up for justice is way more “hardcore” than listening to Jay Z uncensored if you protest until the sun sets. It will be really “edgy” and “hip” to hit the “ghettoest” parts of Ferguson right now! Who’s down? You should braid your hair up and slick your fully-adult baby hairs for some of the peaceful protests, and rallies.. it’ll be so cool, my “nig”! Come on! Let’s be black now!
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